When I got engaged, as a photographer, my family and friends all asked the same question: “Will you have a first look?” It’s not uncommon for couples to do so, but it’s also not necessary. The only thing that matters is that you’re both 100% on board with the decision. That being said, I’ve been on both sides of this situation and here are my thoughts on both sides of this coin:

Why you should have a first look

The most obvious reason to have a first look is that it gives you the opportunity to get some really great photos of the two of you together. The photo session can be intimate, and it’s a beautiful moment that will be captured forever.

It also helps set the tone for your wedding day–if you’re having an outdoor ceremony in the evening, for example, having your first look during daylight hours could give everyone time to relax before things get underway later on in the evening when everyone is tired from dancing and drinking champagne all day long!

Another benefit? You’ll get any ugly crying out of the way before walking down the aisle . And lastly: A private moment just between husband-to-be and bride-to-be–how romantic!

Why you shouldn’t have a first look

Your partner should be surprised.

In front of all of your friends and family, you want to see how your partner responds.

You want to capture each other’s expressions in the ideal photo.

We’ve covered the pros and cons of having or not having a first look. Which side are you on?

If you’re still on the fence about whether or not to have a first look, we hope this article has provided some clarity. We’ve covered the pros and cons of having or not having a first look. Which side are you on?

If you have any further questions regarding this topic, please don’t hesitate to reach out!

I hope this article has helped you decide whether or not to have a first look. If it did, let me know in the comments below!

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